A Good Day

A good day,

When you wake up after long night sleep, when that cold water splashed on you, the freshness you got!

When you dress up, the shirt and pants fits in so perfectly , because of those exercises that you did, without fail!

When you stand in front of mirror, there is no need of primer,  foundation, BB cusion and so on, your face is glowing naturally, because of those vegetables and fruits along with good proteins you took to without tempted to those unhealthy foods!

When you walk down the subways, the smiles from the lil ones to the aged, because you never forget to wear your smile along the way!

When you get to your office, you gathered with your colleagues for breakfast, lunch and tea time, because you always been the warm and friendly with all the people you know.

When you goes back to home, a dinner with family members, share about each other's days, laughing together because home is always sweet home.

When you done with the day, just about to sleep, you express your gratitude to the nature, to the universe, to the God because it was a good day.

It's not about past, present or future, it's about how you use your past to do better in present, and how you gonna take this present to future. It's about all. Balance your life, everyday will be a good day.

GOOD DAY EVERYONE!

Change

There is famous phrase treading in social media now - ' When someone said you have changed, it simply means you are not behaving the way they wanted anymore' -  well, that's might not the exact phrase, but i guess you all know what i am trying to say.  So,  is that true that we didn't change like that phrase?  At all?  Why would someone want to say you have changed if they didn't see the difference?

Does doing something new possible without a change?  Be it changing a new job, new house, new phone, new thoughts and etc. Be it a routine, is it still same as the day before?

People always says in order to be happy or be successful, we should not stuck in past. In order to come to present, we need to change isn't it? 

When someone say 'you have changed', I have seen some people's very first reaction is like 'ya, for good'. Good here not the real good,  the respondse will be with a lot of drama into it. Why when someone said we have changed, we have to take it as sarcasm or a bad thing? 'she/he must have meant it in a bad way'. Our brain and heart will start their gossiping.

We change constantly, the way we talk, we think, we behave. Everyday is a new chapter in life, nothing is going to be the same anymore - from mental to physical to everything we know. Let's see the changes as something good, as a part of life.

'Change is the only thing that don't change'

Once in a while

Weekends was great. Went to my cousin's place . It's like 2 and half hours journey by train. Actually I live in Kuala Lumpur, capital of Malaysia. When it's a capital city- the crowd, the noise, people rushing here and there not a new thing for anyone who lives here.

My cousin's place is a small town. Totally different from the place I live. So much tree around you, less car, clean air..

Yesterday when i was on the way back from there,  i just sit quietly in train, The earphone was not needed, my time spent just by looking at the greenery scenes out of window.

An escape from our routine once a while is so refreshing. We get to see new faces, smile to strangers , different cultures.. All this make us see everything from different perspective.

Once a while we need to be different situation, just to realize few things in life. For an example, i absolutely felt so grateful for having a sophisticated lifestyle back in city. At the same time ,  people here have very peaceful life,  there is no need of rushing for anything, the extra time they have because there is no traffic jam here even in peak hours-all this made me feel how lucky are people here.

Once a while, getaway, see and explore new things, it will definitely free our mind from normal chaos.

Once a while, be with people who we usually don't hangs out with, listen to them, it will give us an idea or solution for something we are looking for very long.

Just once a while,  because 'that a while', might change everything we know or we do all this while :-)

Do take a while to share your thoughts 💭 💭  :-)

Keeping up with friends

Well,  the reason i didn't write last month was because i was busy keeping up with friends. Ok, one of the reason :-) I will admit that a sudden loneliness striked me and i decided to actually at least say a Hi to people i know.

I was really surprised how a simple 'HI' can make so much of wonders. Facebook is connecting all, people post their status, pictures and we 'like', now have new features - 'react'  to thier updates . And this is what we call keeping up with our friends.

My HI  to my friends definitely showed me that there are so many things happening that we don't aware. We have some friends that post whatever situation they are in and some only post about happiness.
A true conversation is needed to know what is going on, what kind of help they need, what kind of opportunity there are for them to offer us and so on.

Have some extra time? Feel free to say HI  to people you know. Who knows - They might have something to offer you or you might have a chance to make difference in their life.

Almost forgot to say something to you all-HI *winks*