Wednesday 17 August 2016

Change

There is famous phrase treading in social media now - ' When someone said you have changed, it simply means you are not behaving the way they wanted anymore' -  well, that's might not the exact phrase, but i guess you all know what i am trying to say.  So,  is that true that we didn't change like that phrase?  At all?  Why would someone want to say you have changed if they didn't see the difference?

Does doing something new possible without a change?  Be it changing a new job, new house, new phone, new thoughts and etc. Be it a routine, is it still same as the day before?

People always says in order to be happy or be successful, we should not stuck in past. In order to come to present, we need to change isn't it? 

When someone say 'you have changed', I have seen some people's very first reaction is like 'ya, for good'. Good here not the real good,  the respondse will be with a lot of drama into it. Why when someone said we have changed, we have to take it as sarcasm or a bad thing? 'she/he must have meant it in a bad way'. Our brain and heart will start their gossiping.

We change constantly, the way we talk, we think, we behave. Everyday is a new chapter in life, nothing is going to be the same anymore - from mental to physical to everything we know. Let's see the changes as something good, as a part of life.

'Change is the only thing that don't change'

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